Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Game or NO Game?

So Saturday night was a big night...i repeat a BIG night. Started drinking at 4pm at a nice beer garden and didn't get home till I think 5am?! Good times although it's now 2 days later and I'm wishing I didn't drink as much!The recovery has been brutal!Eh whatcha gone do?

Anyways the point of this blog is not to recap my night but ponder a gentlemen's so called "GAME." I met this cute guy at the party...danced the night away and ended up exchanging numbers. Although I remembered that he was cute, that was about the extent of it...didn't remember his name or the conversations we had had. (And yes we did talk because he knew I was Belgian! Ha ofcourse)

So to continue the story,tell me why that same evening he felt it necessary to send me a text that he got home safely. I'm glad he got home safely but I don't know him why would he feel the need to let me know? I let it go...i was too drunk to care anyways! My bed was the only thing on my mind at that point.

I wake up that morning to find another couple of texts and for the rest of the day we send messages back and forth. Now...here's the question: Is that game?I would have expected a couple of days before I heard from him. Probably would have forgotten I met him and then out of the blue received a message but instead this boy did not wait! I don't really know what to think of it....eager or plain and simple not wasting any time?!

And so that leads me to Question #2: What's the happy medium? If by a guy calling u the next day, we assume he must be eager or something is off then how long should a guy wait to call us? Should we instead be flattered that he wanted to contact you straight away?

We're planning to meet up sometime this week...i'll keep u posted! Hopefully not a freak!

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